I want, I want, I want....

I thought by the last 2 conversations in the car that I had put a bit of a stop to the "I wants" from Cinderella. Apparently not. I got a text yesterday of her telling me when her school dance was.

I replied with, "AWESOME!"
Then she said, "I still don't have a dress! pooy!"
I said, "We I guess your mom aught to take you shopping huh?"
She replied with, "We never go shopping." (Bs might I add)
I said, "Well there's a first for everything!"
She said, "What?"
I said, "You said that you guys never go shopping, so there's a first for everything."
Then she went on to say that, "They only spend their money on groceries."

Wrong answer. They had a party last Friday night, Saturday, 2 weeks ago tomorrow they were at the bar & have recently gone on vacation & shall I mention the amount of booze they drink? I'm sorry Cinderella, they have money, but you are not important enough to spend it on.

Your dad sends money every.single.month & we pay for ALL of your travelling expenses, so really? Talk to your mom. I never got into that with her though. I just said you need to talk to your dad. THEN SHE HAD THE DAMN AUDACITY TO ASK WHICH DAD TO SPEAK TO. Are you kidding me? Really? Which dad? FUCK THAT! The one who DOESN'T have DUI's, the one who isn't an alcoholic, the one who spends more on you PER MONTH (Which equates to more PER YEAR) than your piece of shit step dad & mom do. I digress.

The answer was a simple no. I told her I loved her & left it at that. Here's the problem, she asks me but never asks my honey about it. I just tell my honey about it. I really would love to sit her down & talk to her, boldly about everything, however I can't because A) It's not my place, B) It's in the court papers that we can't talk badly about the other party & I'm pretty sure I couldn't make it through that conversation without speaking poorly about her shitty mom & step dad.

I asked my daughter if she wanted to spend this weekend with Cinderella & she said, "No mom she doesn't talk to me." Which is true. Ever since her bitch ass mother kept her away from us for 4 months she is a completely different child.

She texted me 2 days ago about how she started her period & how she hates mother nature & how bad she's cramping. I said, "I'm sorry honey, you really need to talk to your mom about putting you on birth control." Yesterday was the first mention ever from my daughter about having cramps & I am calling to get her put on birth control to settle her hormones & hopefully work out her cycles. She's currently having a cycle every 14 days. 1 week on 1 week off.

Cinderella needs to be on birth control because if not, we're gonna be grandparents by the time she's 15. Why? Because her mom is DYING to have another baby in the house. I'm sorry but if my child had cycles like Cinderella I would've had her on birth control long ago. Cinderella has nasty cycles. I feel SO bad for her. This has been going on for her since she was 10!!! Instead tattoos & piercings are more important to talk about.

My poor Cinderella has a very skewed vision of life. Yes, when you're a mom you should do everything to stop your child's pain, misery etc. In the past 6 weeks Cinderella has asked for clothes to go on vacation with (even though we bought her a ton last summer & they still fit her), 500.00 to go on a DC trip, & now she wants a formal dress for a dance. No. Not happening. that's easily 1K in 6 weeks that she wants to spend. Get a job honey. If it were my children asking for this stuff, it would be a no go. Go out, raise your own money & then we'll talk.

I do love her but omg this I want junk is driving me INSANE! You need to prioritize things & not expect it all to be handed on a silver platter.