Here We Come!!

Onto my situation, the personal one.

The ex took me to court back in September/October & said that I was refusing visits. I spent a shitload of money on my attorney to prove that he was a douche bag & that I was not in contempt. The case was thrown out because I had too much evidence proving that I was not in contempt & that I was offering the children to him anytime he wanted them.

We had the court case moved to the county that I lived in.

In December I got papers saying that I would be ok with the current support order that was drafted in 2008. I didn't sign them. I said, "He's making more money, I want a discovery of income done on him. Subpoena his financial records." I think I annoyed my attorney with this. The ex has not paid child support since 8/31/2011. We subpoena'd his financial records & I got a colorful text that said, "YOU FUCKING BITCH!" I smiled. Yes, yes I am. Do NOT under any circumstances fuck with my family. I tend to become the biggest bitch you'll ever know. I love my family & I will go to the ends of the earth to protect them. We 'discovered' an extra $25,000.00 that he wasn't forthcoming about.

To date he still has not paid child support since August 2011. We currently have an order in the courts for him being in contempt by refusing to pay child support. As soon as that is stamped & dated we have a follow up order requesting an up in child support plus the arrears.

He has seen the kids once since the beginning of this year. That's right in almost 5 months he's seen them once. Remember that whole contempt on me? He's definitely not getting the father of the year award.

This is where we stand. I'm awaiting the text telling me what a fucking bitch I am again. It wouldn't surprise me if he became homicidal over this. I prefer suicidal because the SSI would be quite a bit more than the child support. Yes, I'm a bitch like that!