Oh goodness. Life is sure to be busy this week. I'm awaiting shitty texts to fly all over the place. Seriously.
I got the papers in the mail for the adjudication of civil contempt on my ex about not paying his child support. To date he's approximately 8K in back support. As soon as that is done we're following it up with an adjustment in child support. In February we subpoena'd his financial records & 'found' an extra $25,000.00 a year that he wasn't paying child support on. 32% of that? Yes please. I'm just waiting for him to get the papers & throw the nasty texts my way. They'll only be texts because I refuse to speak to him. He lies too much. All of our communication goes through text or email aka a paper trail.
The fall out from this will be my children with broken hearts. Why? He'll refuse to see them again. Once he's gone 6 months & not seen them he'll take me back into court saying that I'm refusing visitation. Then I'll have to take all the texts in & show the phone records proving that I let him have full access to our children. Even if I don't want to, I do. I don't care to spend any type of jail time for keeping the kids from him. When I left his sorry ass I always said that he could see the kids. Until they are in imminent danger he will be allowed to see them.
Moving on, I dropped Cinderella off on Sunday. Her mom & step dad were out in the driveway. I couldn't care less. I didn't make eye contact because that's what they wanted. For me to engage their ridiculous behaviors. It didn't happen. I had my daughter with me. Cinderella got out of the car & opened the door to get her bag & her dog jumped in. The poor dog did NOT want to stay. Her younger sister came over & pulled the dog by 1 leg to get him out. I felt bad. I don't blame ya pups I wouldn't want to be there either.
I had made plans to see their neighbor. I'm actually really good friends with their neighbor. I love her to bits. She went to high school with my fiancee. I met her through him, she was actually friends with Cinderella's mom & step dad. Until Cinderella's step mom started playing all these bullshit mind games, we were all friends.
I drive up & around the corner to my best friend's house. I pull in the drive way. I get out & look down at Cinderella's house. Her mom is freaking watching me. What the hell? I'm an adult, I don't have your daughter, I can do as I please!
I get home & of course her mom has run her mouth on facebook saying that 'Me being so close makes her want to puke & how she's mentally killed me over & over & over in her head just for laughs.' Excuse me? I have 3 children of my own & you want me dead? Nice & to think that you're a nurse too. Dumb ass.
A week or so ago my fiancee asked for access to Cinderella's online school information so he could check her grades. He also saw that she missed school on Thursday because she was BABYSITTING! Not even sick but babysitting! He wants to check her attendance & make sure that she's not going to have to do summer school.
His ex said that she didn't have the password or the login information & she didn't really know why he needed it. Uhm, because we're supposed to have access to all of that? She said that she would get the password. Well she hasn't. I asked Cinderella if her mom had gotten the password yet & she said that she hadn't & that my honey didn't really need it.
That mixed with the bullshit of her mentally killing me over and over for laughs set me off. I called my honey at work yesterday & said, "Hey want me to call Cinderella's school & see what we have to send in to prove that you are to have access to her school information?" He said, "Yes." So I called yesterday & explained the situation, how Cinderella has her STEP DAD'S last name illegally & how was it possible that she was registered under a fictitious name. She told me the papers that I needed to fax. I said, "No problem." The secretary said that she would send the information on to the principal & have him call me back. I said, "Why don't you have him call my fiancee since that's her biological dad & legally you guys can't tell me anything." She said, "Ok that's fine." I gave her his information & faxed the papers within 20 minutes or so. I put on the fax sheet that if they needed anything else to please let my honey know.
I don't mind playing secretary. I do it quite a bit for him because of the hours he works. We're waiting for the ex to find out that we went around her to get a hold of Cinderella's school records. Last year we missed out on visitation because they made her go to summer school saying that she would fail & not move on to the next grade if she didn't. She's on an IEP.. in IL you CAN'T fail if you are on an IEP. Even if that means they just push you through until you graduate!
I'm also not sure WHY she's on an IEP. The child is smart but has a tendency to be lazy when it comes to school work. She's more interested in clothes, boys, etc.. typical for this age.
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